WML girls' night out! :)

HAPPY WML DAY!!! =DD

For those who doesn't know what' does WML stands for, it means Wendy, Myrna and Liling!! =DD these are my great friends since secondary 1!! hahah can u imagine us being friends for nearly 10 years???!

Once again, we indulge into our favourite hobby, that is eating!! =DD

We had a nightout picnic by Singapore River, in front of Timbre! haha awesome place i have to say. Free nice music, nice scenery and great company! Soup Spoon, apple strudel, sushi!

And of coz, when 3 of us together, there will be camwhoring!! :) Let the pictures do the talking!

Liling!
Wendy!

And me!
Gorgeous ladies! :)

What is wendy trying to do to liling???! The random!! LOL

Can u still guess who is who just by backview??!

And one more!

The threesome!

Them!!

Heart!!

Heart to heart!

Simply love u girls! =D

Nice place!!

And lastly, us! thank you wendy and liling for the great memories all these years!! LOVE U GIRLS! :))

I really thank God that our friendship is still strong after so many years! And i hope that even when we are in our 30s, 40s or even 70s, we will still hangout and camwhore! imagine 3 ah Ma aged 70 years old taking all these kinda pics lol..And of coz..our HTHT ! :)

Date :)

Went to meet dear for dinner after his work today! I realized that my appetite is getting bigger these few days. I had light dinner at home before meeting him yet i'm quite hungry when we were tog. We ate at Bakerzin and Hmmm..it's okay, not bad. Lol. din ate any deserts there as we were quite full then. But.....

We went to buy durian and camp at some void deck to eat! LOL. I think that satisfies me more than anything else!!! I simply love durians!!! Especially those bitter kind! The more bitter it is, the more shiok it is!! I remember my dad bought 1 basket of 40 durians home many years ago. hahaha and i eat it consecutively for a few days till I have outbreak! And of coz, the two memorable Mao shan wang durians that i share with liang wei & quanhan... for $120!!! I still can remember it so vividly coz it's super pricey!! roars!

Time check: 1143pm.

Time to sleep! one of my "anti-ageing regimes" Good night friends :)

Looking forward to WML Night picnic @ Singapore River tml! woo!!

My Week:)

These few days have been fruitful for me! Went swimming with dear, peiyun, kenneth, yuantai and nathan at the latter two's condo. haha din know that yuantai and nathan's houses are at the same block!! Shall not put up any of the swimming pic coz i looked too chui! hur hur.


After which, we all went to hang out and ate at this new xinwang taiwan cafe. The fried chicken chop is realy quite big! and quite nice! but..there's no vegetables or other side dish that comes with it, hence it's quite ni4 after a while. All of us couldn't finish our own share. After which,we ordered muay chee to try. Heh! please do not order it coz it's a waste of money!! $3 for 5 little balls of it. All of us were stunned and speechless for few seconds when the waitress put it on the table. I'd rather buy from pasar malam or. =X more worth it.



Us!

Kenneth & Peiyun

Yuantai and Germaine. Germaine just flew back from Japan on that day!

Dear is so cute!! hahaha His ying1 tao2 xiao2 zhui3 LOl

Yesterday, went Orchard Ion with Twinniez :)) Again, we all talked non-stop till we gotta go. anyway I like the place!! all the new brands and shops are all congregated in 1 place! however, the shops in level 1 onwards are too atas for me already! hur hur! But..next time..soon..i shall conquer it!

After which, went to Sandra's convo!! Congratulations deariee girl!!!!

It is always good to attend gd friends' convo! This marks a new chapter in their lives but it also means that we have been friends together long enough to see each other in our graduation gown! :)

After meeting Kelly, weikiat and matthew today, I feel quite good coz we brainstormed quite a few ideas and i really hope it will work!!!! Will keep on praying for God's favour, wisdom and creativity!

And i went down to Debiao and Renming's wedding rehearsal. actually i didn't do much today, but just get to know the place and environment well so that on the actual day, we will be more familarized w it. Saw many of her beautiful wedding pictures. And i really meant it. the pictures of her are really ravishing & beautiful! :) They all deliberately went to China to take!! and she looked like a fairy!! Shall post 2 of their pics here! (taken from her fb) heh heh..

And this place is real!! not fake backgrd!! haha she said it's chilly cold, 2 degrees celsius!!

Bird: "How do you feel while seeing these wedding pictures? Xin1 dong4 ma?? "

Me: "haha ya la, xin1 dong4. maybe it's a girl thing! you lei? xin1 dong4 ma?"

Bird: "Err..actually yes lei!"

Okie, it's not a girl thing anymore! it's a everybody's thing! heh!

:D Connect Zone

We had our first :D Connect Zone combined cg meeting today! It was v good. I think Daryl shared a very relevant and important Word to all of us..that we have our secret identity! Like Jesus Christ or Superman, they had a secret identity that they only realized as they grow up. Same for every single one of us, God made each and every one of us unique and special. When He made us, He made us with a purpose or rather, purposes. Just like the rice cooker, its main purpose is to cook rice..but it can be used as steamboat or to bake cake. What is my secret identity?? It is still being unravelled to me bit by bit..=D I'm excited! When i am 80 years old, i hope this blog still works. Because i wanna keep memories of what i've been doing for my past decades of life. Through reading all these, i will keep how my secret identity is being revealed.

Some random stuffs. I used to think that facial masks are a waste of money. Every time my friends gave me mask, i will just pass to my mum. Now, i realized, I need it! And i'm willing to spend some $$ on it. I need to do some anti-ageing regime. roars!! Now i know why women are willing to spend so much $$ on skincare, handcreams, facial wash etc... because i'm in their shoes now...We wanna look youthful and good!

Happy 5th month!!

HAPPY 5TH MONTH ANNIVERSARY!! =DD

Dear and I always celebrate our monthly anniversary. It may not be a big celebration or luxurious one, but we always make it a point to celebrate it together :)) haha this month, of coz we still do!! However, today's different from other day! I had a surprise plan! BUT. unfortunately it foiled coz dear dear is too smart. He knows what I am up to! However, despite knowing that dear already half-know what's up my sleeve, i still insisted on proceeding with the plan. LOL. Hence, both of us were playing hide and seek all the way from Lakeside to Yishun lol..

Both of us were suspecting each other's movements but in the end, my plan didn't really work out LOL. and end up Dear have to run here and there. sorry! roars!!

however, both of us are still happy when we finally met at the certain place. *Muacks* He's really one of the most patient guy i ever met! hahaha!





I thank God for you, Titus :)

Had a good time with Michelle, Yanghong and Liangwei in this eating trip @ ChinaTown!! We all wanna spend some time with Mich before she flies off to Australia this coming weekend, *hugs*

Went to this shop which is famous for dumpling (according to yanghong). It is really not bad!! However, i felt the things that we ordered are too flour-y already hahaha everything is flour! we ate Dumpling, handmade dumpling skin soup and minced meat noodle. It makes us feel so full and bloated!! But, yanghong never fails us!! he's the champion!! wohooo!! but the food is quite good! :)


The famous dumplings!!


Pretty mich and me!

Hur hur..the finishers!!! Yanghong and Liangwei's hands.

No matter what, there will always still be room for desserts!!

not bad! I din get to try the Mango Pamelo. sigh. But the time i finish making a phone call, it's GONE! not even a single scoop left!! roars!!

Chinatown, haha good place to find food!! :)

Narcissism

I'm currently reading on this book called, "Enough about You, Let's talk about me" by Dr Les Carter. This book talks about narcissistic behaviors, why does someone become a narcissist, the patterns of narcissists, and dealing with narcissists in our lives. I only just started reading it and I learnt quite a few things! Shall share a bit

Here are some of the common traits of a narcissists :)

1) An inability to empathize.

They could not muster an understanding or sympathethic reaction to other's emotions or concers and they generate great frustration as they rationalize that the world would be a better place if others just quit being so wrong in ways they feel and reaction.

For instance:

Friend says, " I feel that you should just try to understand how i felt about this issue.."

Narcissist: " I was really terrible having to live with you whose emotions are so consistently off base!"

Or he/she would just interrupt conversations most of the time and talk about them.

2) Manipulative or exploitive behavior.

They will pretend to be nice and friendly at first. They will do something for you in return that you do something more for them! =X And uses emotion threats.

Eg. "you remember i did for you the other time?? why can't u help me out this time??!"

3) "You Owe Me" : A sense of entitlement

They will say, "What have you done for me in our friendship/ relationship??"

" You owe me this!"

4) Nothing goes in: Inaiblity to take direction

Girl friend, " Dear, we have been spending a lot of time with ur friends, can we spend some time with my girl friends? i haven't met them for a long time."

Narcissistic Boyfriend: "Those people aren't my type. I will not have you telling me who I should spend time with! "

5) Insatiable need for control

They display their need for control thru various means. Some us obvious behavior like being forceful, bossy, bullying, stubborn or argumentative. other may use more covert behaviors like, punishing withdrawal, feigning agreement, slandering others etc..

6) A haughty or judgemental spirit, "you are so wrong!"

For instance, when they come to your house, they will critize almost every single thing about ur hse decorations, the color of ur walls, the photographs that are on ur desk.

or When friend says, " I feel hurt."

Narcissistics will reply, "well that's just stupid. I can't believe you think that way. you are wrong!"

7) Unwillingness to acknowledge reality.

They do not live in truth. They live in their own world.
For instance, if u wanna tell them to lightening up their temper, they would say, "If you put me up against any other person, you will find that i have far more balanced emotions than them!"

8) Lethal Charm: Ability to create favourable impressions.

Despite the destructive nature of this personality profile, many of them have a history of appearing friendly and agreeable-at first! They seem to know that if the display their selfishness too quickly, they will be shunned, so they keep it under wraps until they have gained a foothold in another's life. so scary!!! roars!!

haha, i think that most of us have a certain degree of narcissism. Some have a very little tiny bit, some have large portion of it.

Shall blog more about this again!! All contents are from the book :)

Personally, i don't wanna judge anybody coz i know who am i to judge people. However in my personal experiences, i did met up with ppl who fits in the above traits in my life course. haha but thankfully only a few :)

In the later part of the book, the author will talk about how not to become a victim of them. Let's see how! :)

Bye Sean and Cheuk! =DD

After Service, I went to watch this movie, titled, Haunting in the Connecticut with Dear, Weikiat, Jasmine, Charmaine and Mark! haha even before we were at the cinema, all of us were quite afraid and din really know what to expect. Din wanna put up the Movie poster coz it looks kinda scary. =X And while watching the movie,i tried to distract myself by so that i don't put in my 100% concentration. This reduced the fear that was being induced. I closed my eyes & blocked my ears,!It's a Ok show ba. Now thinking back, it's a bit scary, hence I give it 2/5 stars!

After which, dear and i went to meet Cheuk, Sean, yanghong, kelvin and Sarah for dinner! Seoul Garden. it has been a long time since i ate there!

The residues!
With beloved dearie! Cheuk! I promise u that i will find u and spend more days with u when i go HK the next time!! Muacks!
hahaha Cheuk got thick and sexy lips!

I love you!! thank u for the friendship!! =DD

And lastly, us! =D And sean, but he went off before we took a pic! Take good care Sean, hope u will stay in Sg longer the next time u come back! =DD

Was really looking forward to send Cheuk off at the airport ( as we had planned for weeks) but couldn't..so sorry =X Even it was a short 2 hours of dinner just now, but i really enjoyed her company and i think that she is really a v v lovely person! And from her own life testimony, she's a strong girl who inspires many :) All the best in whatever u do! muacks!

See u again real real soon!!

Fruitful!

These few days have been fruitful and i think i really enjoyed this week!! Met up with many of my friends every single day (except Monday whereby i stayed home). I even went to give free tuition to Lydia, Germaine and Gloria (their friend) at lydia's hse. hahaha okok la, i admit i like hanging out with little girls also la..lol..they make me feel so youthful! HAHA. And of coz, spending some time with dearie Kelly & Lilian. haha we went to City Plaza to scout for stuffs for Kelly's blog shop, end up 3 of us bought a top each from the same shop!! roars! lilian bought the most! a bag and a cool jacket!! hahaha And, definitely, good quality time with kelly during our nights out the other night!! =DD



Also, meeting up Grace for a day date!! haha it is always fun meeting her and just chit chat. No matter how many times we meet up, there are always a lot of things to catch up with each other!! haha And..today, meet up with Grace, Zhixian, Mayling and Wendy for Harry Potter movie! Okie..i'm honestly a Harry Potter fan, i read every single of its book except the last book and watched every single of its movie. But..i feel this movie is a real disappointment =X After about 45 mins after the show started, i turned to Grace and told her that i find it quite boring and she earnestly agreed with me LOL. Then..after a while.. I fell asleep in the middle of the show. And i only woke up at the climax. HMm...i don't really enjoy it..=X I give it 0.5/5 stars. haha ok....i know many of u are going to scold me for that rating!!

And of coz, glad that Dear is out from his reservice after 1 week!! I guess this is the longest time we din see each oher!

And we had a different cg meeting this week! LOL. we had it at a different part of char & ger's hse and we have different guitarist (charmaine) and additional pianist (me) for praise and worship! haha and it's so comforting to see many young secondary school faces with us this week for cg!! =DD And thanks to Uncle and Aunty Helen, we had a durian + desert feast for refreshment!! i think i really ate a lot coz of deprivation!! i haven't eat it for so long!

On the way home from cg, i confronted a lecher and even shouted in the bus and chased him when he alighted. He continued walking v fast and i chased after him coz i know in my heart i cannot just let him get his way! Too often, we girls are always afraid to stand up when these kinda things happened. I was like that last time too. But i just felt so strongly that I gotta protect myself. However, i was so disappointed that when i asked a couple for help, they just ignore my plead for help, and they just walked away. ( they are the only ppl at the bus stop i think!) It was such a ulu place and it was midnight..and there i was asking them for help and they just leave me alone. honestly, i was angry but i was also quite scared. I have no choice but to let him go. I think this is the first time i raised my voice till so loud. Of coz i was so upset that i cried. I was thinking how come the couple din come and help me. Thank God that I called Twinniez and Dear right after the incident. I wanted to hide it and keep it to myself. Dear came down right after I called him (Love units increase tremendously lol) and i woke my mum up to tell her abt it.

Things that I have learnt:

1) We gotta stand up for ourselves and not be afraid to shout for help. Even if no one is there to help, at least this will scare the lecher and let him know that he won't get his way!!

2) Do not shout, "hey! stop!" in the bus when the lecher is alighting. I was so puzzled how come no one in the bus help me to chase the lecher when i shouted that. Then dear told me, which i really agree. He says that ppl in the bus and the bus driver will think that i am shouting that to ask the bus to stop to let me alight! I shld have shouted molester!!

3) Tell ur close friends and family members abt it if it really happens. Do not keep to ourselves coz this will result in emotional trauma which is detrimental.

4) Do evaluate the surrounding when chasing the lecher. When i chase the lecher, i realized that it was a ulu bus stop along AYE. hur hur..no one is really there..and it was midnight..he could have attacked me or whatever. Thank God he didn't..

I just thank God that i'm safe...I think this is a learning lesson for me..Let's not keep to ourselves when such things happened...We are precious children of God. Even though such things do happen unfortunately, but that doesn't mean that God doesn't love us. He really loves us so much. Because He loves us so much, He wants us to grow up to have a healthy self-image :) And that is why He gave us so many nice and wonderful people around us to help & take care of us. :)

That is why I love God and I love the people around me a lot :)

GIRLS' NIGHT OUT W KELLY! =DD

hahaha it has been a while since both of us went out on a date! And yeah! today shall be the day! we've planned this 2 weeks ago le!

We went to Timbre at ArtHouse.And i think its an awesome place to chill! haha!

There will be live band every night. I remember the last time i went there was Jo's 21st Bday last October!
Me and my drink, SnowBall. it's really nice, i like it!


Pretty Kelly and her drink, Grasshopper!

The Roasted Duck Pizza!! haha Kelly likes this!But i find it a bit too ni4 after the 2nd piece!

And..the seafood platter! It's really a lot. Both of us can't finish both of them =X

hahaha acting emo!!

And me too!

And of coz, us together!!

Nice Night view w gorgeous lady=DD

Us!

hahaha and of coz,with us around, there're bound to be stupid things to do together!! Like...thiss!!

Crazy woman at the back!

Weird woman at the back! Lol

hahaha this shot looks abit weird tho!

And my marvelous pole dancing!!

Sweet!

Singa!!

hahahaha where's kelly!

Oh yeah!!

Lending a helping hand to the coolies!

On our way home!

Lastly, us! =D

Really had great fun with her today!! Both of us are girls who love quality time and i'm glad we had this date together! hahaha Timbre is good. but i think the best part is when we sat by Singapore River and just talk about our lives and all. Nothing is better than having a heart to heart talk with each other. Love this gurliex a lot! =D And yes, we made a pact with each other, the pact that we are to make it happen by next year. Wanna know huh??! HAHAHA Sorry! cannot tell u! =Pp

Thanks Kelly for uploading the pic the moment u reach home! HAHA i know i forced u to do that! But thanks for pei4 he1-ing me too hahaha

Hur Hur..our next date...Harris'!!!( we need air-con!! roars!! )